Signs Latina Women Want a Casual Relationship
You know you’re in a casual relationship when your partner doesn’t want to label your relationship. If it’s exactly what you’re looking for with Latina women, then you’re in luck. But if you’re looking for something deeper, you both need to talk about how you want your relationship to progress, which can be nerve wracking.
The choice is about knowing how to have a casual relationship without getting hurt or having a conversation to see if you are on the same page, especially if you actually want a serious relationship.
It’d be easier when your Latina date made it clear right off the bat that she only wants a fling. When she’s honest from the start, then you’re better able to brace the truth and make the decision on whether or not you should take it to the next level. Even if there are signs a Hispanic girl likes you, it’s a lost cause when your Latin date only wants to have a friends with benefits arrangement with you.
When you just can’t seem to determine what’s going in between you two, here are some signs you’re just a fling:
- She clearly said she just wants things casual
- Your conversations are superficial
- She steers clear in making you a part of her life
- It’s just the same place and activity
- She doesn’t pay attention to little things
- You’re always the one who reaches out
If your date’s honest enough to admit that she only wants a mere fling, then you’re spared of having to read between the lines. And don’t even bother trying to change her mind because most likely she is beyond any negotiation.
If this is what you want among other types of relationships, then you’ve hit the jackpot. If not, you can move on to someone else. Making decisions gets easier when she’s upfront about what you two are, so you know what to expect.
You might have enjoyed spending time with each other on plenty of dates, but then you look back and realize that your conversations haven’t gotten past regular small talk. If your relationship is really going to a deeper level, then you would have had deeper and more meaningful conversations every now and then.
Not all conversations have to be serious or deep all the time, but you would have been comfortable sharing some personal details to your Latina date if she was really interested.
If she doesn’t share any personal details and changes the subject when you do, then you know you two are just casual dating. She prefers to just flirt with you than ask questions about you as a person, like your profession or interests. This kind of behavior can be really off-putting if you’re looking for something serious.
If anything, she’ll do whatever it takes so that you wouldn’t meet her family, friends, and even her pets. She would even manage to avoid mentioning them at all.
While it’s normal not to meet these people in the early part of the relationship. but if you’ve been seeing each other for a while and you still haven’t met the people closest to her (or she constantly refuses when you ask to meet them), then you’re just in a sexual relationship with her. You’re not deeply involved in each other’s lives.
With casual dating and relationships, the person you are seeing might not regard you as someone she can have a future with nor see you as her ideal partner. Another reason is she just isn’t ready for a serious commitment.
But when she especially tries to carve you out of her life, then it’s a clear sign. A more disturbing clue is she might not want to be connected with you in social media, which could also mean she is hiding something.
If you keep meeting her in the same place and doing the same activities over and over, it’s clear that she wants things only to be casual between you. For instance, your dates consist of meeting at the same bar on Wednesday nights and most likely involves alcohol. Or your dates are set almost at the last minute. If you’re wondering why that is, that’s because she won’t bother making meaningful plans with you.
If she ever thinks of you as a potential partner for a serious relationship, she would be willing to plan other activities with you. One of the signs a casual relationship is getting serious is when you take time to plan memorable dates, like coming over the weekends. The weekend is the best time for most couples to see each other. When she refuses to spend time with you on such days, then you know that she has no intention of settling down with you.
If she cares about you, then even the littlest things matter because she knows paying attention to them makes a big difference. Being heard makes you feel special, so when she doesn’t make any efforts to do that, then she’s not going to be around for long.
Consideration is crucial in relationships and when she keeps on missing little details about you, then she’s just with you for a fling.
If both sides want the relationship to work, they would both make equal effort to reach out to each other. But if you seem to be the one mostly initiating contact, then most likely she’s just into you for the time-being. In this case, she may as well not respond to your texts. But when she does, she’ll take her sweet time even letting her calls go to voicemails.
At this point, it’s clear that she doesn’t prioritize you nor take your feelings into account. Why bother being with someone who only treats you as a second fiddle?
If you spot these signs while dating Latina women when you wanted a serious relationship, you don’t need to take it personally. Take comfort in the fact that you can find someone who wants the same things in a relationship as you.
